I was at a BBQ before the 2nd baby was born.

And I didn’t really know everyone. Plus, I  was without the crutch of Zed or Whirlwind.

Side note: There is nothing better than having a toddler at a social event where you don’t feel like being so social.

There was a woman there with an 8 month old baby and she was talking about how great her experience was with her midwife and that her body felt ready to have sex way before the suggested 6 weeks.  She had sex with her boyfriend after her baby was 4 days old.


Come on now.

I used a midwife and after Whirlwind, Zed and I didn’t have sex for 4 months.

Another side note: He won’t care that I am sharing this. Because it’s a fact and it doesn’t insult his manliness. In fact is does the opposite it shows what a wonderful caring supportive husband he is. Blah, blah, blah. Super Zed. I get it.

Back to my disgust.

4 days?!  Really? This makes me want to throw up in my mouth.

Am I the only person that thinks this is a little bit gross? Not the throwing up in my mouth part, but the sex after 4 days.